I believe every relationship we experience with a romantic partner is meant to show us exactly where we are in our own spiritual journey.
The truth is, we always call in the person who mirrors what we need to learn, heal or let go of within ourself.
For example, if you’re not committed to yourself, you’re probably unconsciously attracting someone who can’t commit to you.
If you feel unworthy of expressing your opinion and stating your truth, you may find yourself in a relationship with someone who doesn’t truly hear you and invalidates your thoughts and feelings.
If you don’t honor and respect yourself, you will most likely be attracted to someone who doesn’t honor and respect you.
You see, we keep encountering the lessons we need to learn through people and situations.
We are constantly given so many opportunities for growth and healing… But the question is, why don’t we see them?
You may think that a healthy relationship is impossible for you, or that some people are just “lucky” to be in a good one.
But it’s much deeper than that…
You are deserving and worthy of being happy and no one has the power to take happiness away from you.
When you realize you’ve been the one creating your life from within, you can then choose to set yourself free and embark on a path that’s connected to your spiritual magnificence.
If you cultivate the courage to choose the path that honors your soul… It will guide you into a life of more Love, Happiness and Prosperity than you can imagine.
Compromising who you REALLY are in order to be with someone is dishonoring to your soul.
If you’re doing this, it’s time to stop disconnecting from yourself and embrace who you are.
Remember, we choose our partners to help us get to the next level of our growth. But if we continue to manifest the same kind of man in a different suit or woman in a different dress, we’re not learning the lesson!
If you continue to struggle in relationships, perhaps it’s time for you to take 100% responsibility for your own patterns and heal them. (No judgment, I’ve been there myself!)
Healing the patterns that get in the way of having a wonderful, loving and conscious relationship will help you ascend to a higher frequency. What I mean by that is you stop being attracted to people who match your old dysfunctional patterns.
You become more “attractive” when you’re emotionally healthy. I don’t mean just physically attractive but a way of being that attracts the greatness you really are.
When you’re clear about what you want to bring into your life from a neutral place, you can decide what truly honors you and let go of what doesn’t.
- You can establish clear boundaries with yourself and with your partner.
- You can express your vulnerabilities because you feel safe to honor who you are.
- You can fully be yourself no matter what!
This is FREEDOM! And it’s the only way to know if you’re in a relationship that is fully aligned with who you are.
When you can be yourself without holding anything back, you will always be guided into what’s next for you.
And believe me, there is nothing more attractive than being you… Unapologetically YOU!
To your highest life..